Bad Tenants And How They Emotionally Manipulation Landlords

Find A Great Tenant

The number one problem facing most landlords is ‘How to find a great tenant.”

A great tenant pays the rent on time each and every month. You don’t have wonder if or when your tenant will pay.

The reason we all fear renting to a bad tenant is because they are money sucking, time sucking people who drive you to the edge of your sanity!  These bad tenants make many landlords hate that they own rental property!

The key to being able to find a great tenant is that before you start looking for a new tenant, remind yourself to be in the right mindset.

GOAL:  Do not allow anyone to emotionally manipulate you into making a bad decision.

 

Bad Tenants Excel At Emotional Manipulation

Bad tenants have an entire tool box of things that they use to convince landlords to give them a second chance.  One of the easiest ways to convince a landlord to “take a chance on them” is to make you feel sorry for them. It is actually very easy to do because landlords are people and we have feelings!

These bad tenants use our emotions to emotionally manipulate us and convince us that this time it will be different.  This bad tenant just needs to convince a landlord to throw out all of their rental criteria and emotion is the best way tot do that. Once we feel sorry for these people, it is every easy to convince a landlord to do something that they should never do . . . throw our guidelines out the window!

I learned the hard way that systems and rental criteria help keep landlords on track.  Following your systems helps you as a landlord sidestep these bad tenants.  When you follow your systems, you don’t allow yourself to “take a chance” on these bad actors.

 

Bad Tenants Lack Certain Skill Sets

Remember, it isn’t your job to save anyone or give anyone a second chance. Your job is to take care of your property and your family.  These bad tenants usually lack certain skill sets. They have never learned to keep a job, budget their money and to pay their bills on time.  It is not your job to take these people on and teach them how to be great tenants.  Most of them also lack the will power to actually live on a budget and behave appropriately.

 

REPEAT AFTER ME:

  • I am only looking for a GREAT tenant.
  • I have made the decision to stop renting to bad tenants.
  • I will release my feelings of fear, stress, anxiety, dread, (fill in the blank – other feelings) during the process of finding a new tenant.
  • I will always remember to put my business and my financial well-being first.
  • This is a business.
  • I will make every effort to not get on the phone with prospects until they have filled out the pre-screening form.
  • It is not my responsibility to give people a second chance if it threatens my business and financial well-being.
  • Prospects and applicants who do not meet my guidelines are not bad people.
  • These “bad tenants” simply lack the skill sets to be good tenants.
  • I do not have to justify my guidelines to anyone.
  • I will not feel bad or guilty for putting my business and financial well-being first.
  • I will remember the phrase “Company policy requires . . . “ and use it as needed.
  • I will not fall in love with or pre-rent to any prospect or applicant until I have properly screened them.
  • I will never try to force someone to fit my guidelines.

 

Landlord Mindset Video Training

I run across landlords every single day who have fallen victim to bad tenants.  It is so easy to fall for their stories and agree to take a chance on them!  We all know how that ends up!

I put together this video to help every landlord out there be able to easily identify when they are being emotionally manipulated and then learn how to side step these people!

CLICK HERE to watch this FREE video on how to sidestep these bad tenants!

Tenants Who Pay Late

Tenants who pay late

What Do You Do With Tenants Who Pay Late?

Tenants who pay late are very common.  If you are lucky, they call you and explain why they are paying late.  Other tenants don’t bother to let you know and just randomly pay.

These late paying tenants are a serious problem if you count on the rent money to pay your mortgage.  Even if you don’t depend on the rent money to pay any bills, it is very annoying when your tenant continually pays rent late.

 

Procedure For Handling Late Paying Tenants

Unfortunately, you cannot force anyone to pay.  You need to fall back on your procedures for ensuring that the tenant knows what happens next.

Always send out the appropriate late notice.  Know the laws in your area.  Be sure and consult with an eviction attorney so that you can give the proper notice to your tenant.  I live in Louisville, KY and we send a 7 day notice that basically says pay or get out.

Once notice arrives, the tenant will usually touch base with me.  If this tenant has already called, this person was warned that they would be receiving the 7 day notice.  I do occasionally run across a tenant who is offended that I won’t just “trust” them to pay the rent as soon as they can.  I explain that company policy require me to send a 7 day notice to every tenant who has not paid on or before the 5th day.  We have a 5 day grace period.

The late notice should list the past due rent and any late fees.  I have a $50 charge on the 6th and $5 per day after that.  So, if the tenant pays on the 10th and their rent is $1,000, the tenant would owe $1,065.  I don’t charge for the actual day they pay.  It is in your best interests to insist that the late fees are paid along with the rent.  There are times that I will allow a payment plan, especially if the late fees are high.  For example, if the tenant paid rent on the 25th day of the month, late fees would be $140.  Many tenants won’t have that much extra money.  But, I only allow it to be split in half.

The main issue is that when a tenant pays this late in the month, the chances that they will pay late the following month increase dramatically.  Then you are on the path of a tenant who pays chronically late and can’t afford the late fees.  At some point, this has to stop and the tenant needs to move.  I usually sit down with the tenant and try to get them to move out but I will evict them if I have to.  It is much easier and cheaper to get them to willingly move.  Not every tenant will be agreeable to just moving but it is what I try first.

 

Always Pays Late But Pays Balance In Full

I have a couple of tenants who pay late roughly 5 or 6 months out of 12.  For one of them, I moved the rent due date because she went on disability and SSI and her payment often didn’t arrive until the 10th or the 11th of the month.  She was never going to get caught up and it was just easier to move her due date.

For the other tenants, they randomly just pay late and they always pay the late fees.   While this is annoying because I still send the 7 day letters every single month, they always pay the late fees and they never complain about paying them.  The company makes more money every month and for now, it seems to be working.

 

Improved Screening Of Applicants

This issue drives me crazy.  I did a review of these tenants to see if I could have spotted these issues during the application process.  There were no red flags during the application process that I could find.  I always send over a questionnaire for the previous landlord to fill out and none of them flagged these tenants as late payers.  It is possible that the landlords just wanted to get rid of these tenants and didn’t say anything.

One thing that stood out on two of them is that while they met the income requirement of 3x the rent, they had no extra money.   One tenant ended up losing their job and the new job didn’t pay as much.  There was no way to predict that this would happen.

Another tenant had a lot of student loans that they started paying on which reduced their spendable income.  Very few landlords count student loans or medical bills but I have started to see some issues with this.   Remember, at some point they will have to start making payments on their student loans and those payments can be quite high.  In many cases, those monthly payments will cause the tenant to not meet the debt to income ratio.  You need to have a process for considering student loans because it can significantly reduce your tenants monthly income.

 

3 Strikes Rule

Many landlords I know have what I call a 3 strikes rule.  Typically, they only allow 2 late pays or 2 eviction filings per year before they move to evict.  Once the tenant pays late the third time or has an eviction filed against them for the third time, the landlord will no longer accept the rent. The landlord will move to evict these problem tenants.

I personally don’t have this rule because it is very costly to turn a house and get it ready to rent again.  I work with the tenant within reason. I follow the process but if the tenant comes up with the money for the past due rent, the late fees and the court fees, I will accept the money.  This is strictly a business decision on my part.

Neither way is wrong and you will need to decide what works for you.

 

Follow Your Procedures

Late paying tenants seems to be one of the top problems that landlords have.  When you have this issue, have procedures in place and follow them.

  • Spell out in the lease what happens when a tenant pays late and follow through.
  • Send the late pay letter and charge late fees.
  • Be prepared to file an eviction against them.
  • Decide at what point you will no longer accept payments.
  • How many late pays or eviction filings will you allow?

 

Following Your Procedures Makes For Better Tenants

The most important thing to always remember is that you are setting expectations for your tenants.  When you follow your procedures every single time, they know what to expect.  If you don’t follow your procedures every time, you are teaching your tenants that it is ok to pay late.  Why should your tenant pay on time every month if you don’t charge late fees or you never start the eviction process by sending out a late notice?

It is your job to make sure this tenant stays on track.  It is my belief that bad paying tenants are created in part by landlords who don’t enforce their rules. These tenants never learn that they have to follow the rules.